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Are You Seeing a Casual Dater ?

By Mary Ann Tordecilla

For a girl, dates are meant to get to know each other well. When the first date is followed by several other ones, this is something that requires serious attention. Girls know they are seeing someone who is committed and interested on a relationship with them.

But there are also circumstances that guys who constantly date the same girls, do not want to discuss things about getting to the next level. These kinds of guys are there to date and they are fun to be with. But once girls ask them about getting committed, they suddenly back off.

These guys are commonly called the casual daters. They are there for the fun and the games, but are not really ready to be that man for a girl by his inability to take the dating game into a real relationship.

Really, these things happen and can happen to any girls. So how can you possibly tell if you are dating a casual dater? The following pointers can help you recognize a casual dater:

1. Your guy dates a lot but has little experience with women when it comes to relationships.

2. Your guy has a vast experience with dating scenes and services. He is expert on picking up a date. He is smooth with women. He is popular on clubs and parties.

3. He got his profile on almost every dating site, magazines, newspapers and others. He always responds to women’s messages and invites. He has no personal and specific description of his dream girl. He dates women with no specific preference or such.

4. When you and your guy talks about relationship in general, he seems so quiet and naive when opening up this topic with you.

5. He sees and dates more than one woman a night and finds dating game as a game of numbers more than finding the right woman for him.

6. He always wanted to date you and that’s it. He does not introduce you to his friends or families. He is not serious of discussing things with you on commitment and relationship.

These are the things that clearly describe a casual dater guy. Clearly, you should have seen a casual dater coming when we takes you out on several dates without even popping up the serious questions or even discussing with you about taking things more seriously other than dating.

Online dating is haven for casual daters. Thus, it is very unavoidable to meet someone who is one. If you are seeking for guy who wants to have a serious relationship, make sure that your second date discusses this topic well. By doing so, you will be able to tell a guy if he is into relationships or not.

If you will encounter a casual dater, do not ever entertain him anymore for more dates. If this kind of guy is not for you, do not waste any of your time and find a new one instead. There are plenty of fish online. Even though dating seems to be tiring for quite some time, soon you will find the guy who can make all your effort and time in finding him all worth it.

About Mary Ann Tordecilla